In Common
We don’t all pray in the same church,
but we all wait in the same checkout lines,
glancing at gum racks and tabloid lies,
half-watching the kid with the runny nose
and the old man counting nickels.
We don’t all vote the same,
but we all curse at traffic lights,
get cut off by the same kind of jerk
in the same kind of hurry.
Then we go home
and try not to lose our temper
at someone we love.
We don’t all eat the same food,
but we all sit in waiting rooms,
staring at worn-out magazines,
pretending not to worry
as our name creeps closer
to the nurse’s clipboard.
We raise flags for different reasons,
but we all stand quiet
when someone folds one
and hands it to a widow.
We teach our kids different songs,
but they all cry
the first time they see something die
and ask if it hurts.
We build our fences,
paint our houses,
make what peace we can
between the news and the night.
And when it’s done—
when the breath leaves
and the hands fall still—
we don’t ask who you voted for.
We carry you
to the same quiet ground,
dig the same hard earth,
say the same awkward words,
and place the same tired flowers.
Different names,
same stone.